How I met Kameron

Empty nesting can be disorienting and for a little while I didn’t know what to do with myself. For one brief chapter I was in retail at a local bookstore. I didn’t necessarily feel proud of the fact that I could upsale like a pro, but it was a great confidence builder, and the people were good to me—that’s where Kameron comes in. She was one of my beloved co-workers whose optimism and kindness in the face of obstacles continues to be inspiring.

Model, Kameron Rodriguez, Frary Peak, Antelope Island State Park

Occasionally Kameron and I walked home together and a rare friendship developed. She never seemed to mind that I’m decades older than she is. She treated me like I mattered, and I’m pretty sure she’s unaware of the positive impact that had on me.

Kameron doesn’t mince words—she tells you she loves you, and makes an extra effort to shower everyone around her with kind words and gentle understanding. She also happens to be a model, and it was no surprise that she volunteered to do a photoshoot with me when I put out a call for help to expand my professional portfolio.

I learned a lot about Kameron over the last couple of years. She’s careful about sharing details and has zero tendency to brag, so when I asked her a few questions about her story, the answers were short and sweet. This is what she had to say…

Me: Have you always wanted to be a model?

Kameron: Modeling wasn’t always something I enjoyed. It can be a fun, yet challenging opportunity to appreciate how I am different from others. I’ve learned to embrace the fun parts.

Info from the sidelines: Kameron has worked on several shoots. She strives to be the kind of person who sees modeling opportunities as creative teamwork rather than a competition with fellow models.

Model Kameron Rodriguez, Frary Peak, Antelope Island State Park

Me: What are some of the greatest challenges you have faced in life?

Kameron: …Not losing hope. I’m grateful for the challenges I’ve faced because they have taught me the most important thing in life is life itself.

Info from the sidelines: You know, people who learn lessons like this don’t come by it easily, and it’s remarkable that challenges can lead to incredible depths of understanding.

Me: What are some of your hopes and dreams for the future?

Kameron: My hopes and dreams are less about grand destinations and more about becoming—someone whose presence brings peace, whose words carry weight, and whose life reflects integrity.

Info from the sidelines: Russell M. Nelson, a centurion whose kind influence reached far across the globe, often spoke about peace. He taught that being a peacemaker is a choice that will bring about positive change in the world. Every time someone decides that bringing peace to others is a key ingredient in their own life, like it is for Kameron, is a time to celebrate.

Kameron: I hope to make a difference with a life filled with meaningful connections, moments that matter, and leave behind something that will outlast me.

Model Kameron Rodriguez, Frary Peak, Antelope Island State Park

Kameron is just getting started. In the decades ahead I hope she finds a way to discover and tell more of her story. Our culture teaches us that talking about ourselves is unattractive, but I have come to find that sharing our stories is key to connection. It’s a way to gather the stamina needed to move forward. When we know, share and accept our own story, it allows us to be open to and compassionate toward the stories of others, which in turn gives others the strength to keep going.

Once we finished our photoshoot near Frary Peak on Antelope Island, we quickly made our way down the mountain and drove to the sand to grab a couple of pictures before the sun went down. Kameron told me she wanted to practice embracing the physical part of her that reflects her Native American ancestry—her side profile.

Model Kameron Rodriguez, sunset on the beach at Antelope Island State Park

Does Kameron’s story spark a desire in you to tell your own story? If you don’t know where to begin, try attending RootsTech, a huge annual conference on family history. Discover a tremendous amount of creative ways to tell your story in curated classes or in their enormous expo center. At the writing of this blog post, RootsTech three day passes are discounted for early bird pricing. I’m not sure how long that will last, so grab one while you can. Too far away to participate? You can attend online and enjoy access to hundreds of classes and presentations available on their website. But I’ll warn you, it’s addicting. How else do you think I got sucked into this? *wink* No regrets though! Click here.

It’s All Relative

Have you noticed any one particular trait that runs in your family? Our children have exhibited artistic traits through the years and the first comment their aunts and uncles made was, “Just like Grandma!” because Grandma was a painter, and so was her father for that matter.

As a student, I majored in English and once came tremendously close to getting an agent to publish my children’s books. So when I found out that Emily Dickinson is my cousin, I was thrilled. I love books so much that I even went to a festival in Forks, Washington for fans of a certain book series written by Stephenie Meyer (if you know, you know). I cannot explain why I get so excited about actually seeing the places, eating the food, and meeting the actors from that story, but there it is. Getting older kinda stinks and it was nice to feel like a kid again, getting together with other fans to celebrate such a creative, unique story.

Lake Crescent, on the way to Forks, Washington

There is a fun game on FamilySearch that shows who your famous relatives are—people who were artists, explorers, athletes, authors, leaders, actors, musicians, etc. I haven’t found any famous photographers on there, but any kind of creativity seems to run in our genes. Some of my ancestors were even creative in questionable ways. Jesse James was seen as a type of Robin Hood in the south for his “creative” ways of acquiring income. I’m glad I don’t take after him though.

If you could imagine your own famous relatives, who do you think they would be? Would you be excited if a president of the United States was your cousin? What if you discovered you were related to Shirley Temple or Vincent van Gogh? Finding out might inspire you to foster your own talents and interests, which is one of the most important parts of your story.

La Push Beach on the Quileute Reservation

Visit FamilySearch to create your free family tree. It tends to self populate once you enter a couple of generations—you’d be surprised at how many people you’re related to who are already working on your same family tree. Unlike other family history services, this one is a huge community tree. Don’t be surprised if someone adds a picture or story to “your” tree. It’s a wonderful thing to learn new information about a great-great-grandparent because a total stranger is also related to them. Concerned about privacy? They’ve got you covered. Details of living family members, including yourself, are only visible to you. Plus, you can use an unidentifiable public user name so your actual name will not be shown. You can even create a tree for your adoptive family if you don’t know your own blood relatives.

“Hold on tight, spider monkey!” (Twilight, 2005)

So, are you going to do it? Find out if your skills run in your family for generations? I hope you do, and I hope it ignites a sense of newness and discovery in you.

And if you do, you’d also like to know about RootsTech, a free online event to help you learn more about telling not only your story, but that of your family. Save the date: March 5-7, 2026. Registration begins September 24th. And if you’re feeling extra excited about it all, you can purchase a ticket for the three day, incredible in person event. Early bird pricing will be available at the link below.

Member, RootsTech Media Team, 2026

A Thread That Connects

If you think of a piece of art that you love, I bet you can also recall a way in which it connects you to someone. I dabble in art every now and again, and I painted three little bird watercolors which are hanging on my wall. I painted them when we lived in Maine and they remind me of our cabin, and the canoe rides we took together on the Cobbossee in West Gardiner. Those little birds connect my mind to the moments I spent with loved ones on that river.

My niece Jeanette is a gentle soul who expresses what is important to her through her art. I’ve watched her journey into the professional art world with wonder and awe. The photos below are from our plain air painting photoshoot in Rock Canyon. Let me share with you what she said about her life as an artist.

Artist, Jeanette Lee Adams

Me: What is it about yourself that inspires you to be creative?

Jeanette: I am inspired to be creative when I see and truly appreciate the beauty of this world. Because God is a creator, I also want to create beauty and help others to see and appreciate it. My faith and relationship with God is a motivator for creativity because it helps me to see something deeper and more spiritual in an object, experience, or person and want to explore, express, and share ideas and impressions through a visual language…I want to use painting as a medium for asking big questions and facing honestly the parts of myself that are deeply human—hurting, weak, scared, and flawed—as I seek to reach out and touch the Divine in a search for truth and wholeness.

Me: Can you give me some background into your painting career?

Jeanette: I did study art in college, but I set it aside for about 12 years...Once [my children] were all in school I decided to obtain [more] training because I wanted to be prepared to do high level work and to depict the human figure…When my children were teenagers I obtained classical art training at Beaux Arts Academy, which was an amazing and inspiring experience. In 2020 I went through a divorce after nearly 20 years of marriage. At this time I began painting professionally and selling my work. I also realized I could use even more education…I moved to NYC for graduate studies at New York Academy of Art where I received my MFA in painting.

The Artist

This year Jeanette came home to Utah with her new husband John. They’re settling into their home in Utah Valley and she’s excited to be a part of the local art community and paint full-time.

The Supplies

Me: What is a life lesson that has resonated with you?

Jeanette: I went through a period of my life which lasted many years when I felt discouraged. I was a busy young mother, and although I loved being able to raise my children as a stay at home mom, I often struggled internally in personal ways and yearned for a greater level of happiness and fulfillment...I developed a couple of practices that helped me to change myself internally. The first was that I began keeping a daily gratitude journal…It helped me to develop a deep trust that no matter how low I felt, God would show up for me that day…Secondly, as I read from scripture each morning, I began noticing and being impressed by the outcomes of individuals who practiced and exercised their faith. I learned how an internal belief and expectation could inspire action that led to miracles and tangible results. I felt inspired to grow in my faith…Over a period of time, not only did I feel different inside, it changed my external world in a positive way. I learned that changing our lives begins with changing our [own] thoughts and heart.

The Subject

The scene above is the one Jeanette is working on below. I marveled at her process of mapping it out—a rough sketch via her brush. The picture quickly began to take shape and with Jeanette’s permission, I will certainly post the final piece once it’s done.

Me: What are your hopes and dreams for the future?

Jeanette: I have many hopes and dreams for the future. My artistic goals are interwoven into my goals around my family life and the joy and fulfillment I have around parenting. The type of home my husband and I are working to create, [as well as] being a part of our children’s lives… are all important parts of my hopes for the future.

The Process

Jeanette: In terms of my art business, I want to create a sustainable practice that will not only bring joy and meaning to my life, but also impact others for good…I imagine having opportunities to travel internationally for exhibition and teaching opportunities, and I believe that these will provide enrichment and excitement in our lives. It is important to me to live a healthy lifestyle that will enable me to continue painting and learning into old age. I look forward to many years of growth and productivity ahead.

Artist, Jeanette Lee Adams

When I asked Jeanette if she has a favorite piece, she gave me permission to share this moving painting:

“Grief” 40×40 oil on board, 2022

I have never lost a child as depicted here, but I can feel the grief of the scene—that familiar pain of deep loss and sorrow that we all face at some point, a connection we have with each other.

Thanks for being a part of my story Jeanette. And thanks to all my readers who connected with us in a beautiful way today. You are what makes the world good and kind and safe.

How I Met Lucy

Talking to strangers is fun, unlike I was taught when I was five (forgive me Mom, teehee). I’ve discovered that if I act like they’re already my friend, they usually end up that way. Such is the case with Lucy, who I found to be wonderfully kind, gentle, enthusiastic, grateful, and talented.

You know, sometimes the world feels scary to us all and we shut people out to stay safe—I still do that occasionally. And let me clarify, there are definitely instances in which we do need to take precautions. But when I saw Lucy and her friends having fun at the Utah State Capitol, I had a good feeling I could approach these total strangers and ask to take their picture. They might say no, but I could respect that. As a die hard introvert, I had to dig deep for the courage to do it.

Fast forward to an hour later and 300+ raw photos—but more than that, I noticed something unusual about Lucy. She was crazy comfortable in front of the camera. Posing? Not a problem!

“Wow, you’re a natural,” I said. “Yeah, I’m a model,” she replied with genuine modesty. Seriously? I couldn’t believe it! As a fairly new professional photographer, meeting a model was a Godsend, a real blessing. We exchanged info and did this creative photoshoot at Antelope Island, one of my favorite photoshoot spots.

I asked Lucy if she’d mind telling me a snippet of her story to share here. Her honesty and openness inspired me. So friends, here is a small chapter in the life of Lucy:

Me: What is a challenge that you feel good about overcoming?

Lucy: It’s probably any challenge, honestly. Any challenge that I come across I always take as a learning experience, and I’m always ready to learn and accept things for what they are, and to adapt.

Me: Can you tell me what you love most about modeling?

Lucy: The expression. I think that expressing yourself is very important. You know we humans have a lot of feelings, and expressing yourself is always important—whether it’s painting, drawing, photoshoots, you know? I think modeling is a great way to express yourself and your feelings.

Background info: Lucy is participating in “Next In Modeling”, a local social media version of America’s Next Top Model. She mentioned in her introduction video that she has known who she is from a very young age. I asked her if she might elaborate on that.

Lucy: You know, growing up religious, growing up mixed, it was very apparent that I was different from a lot of the Utah normal. So I had to be my own friend. I was bullied. I was ostracized. I was excluded from a lot of things because of the color of my skin. So, I think when I was young I really understood that I had to be confident and I had to be strong and I had to be myself…

Me: What are some of your hopes and dreams?

Lucy: I’ve done music my whole life, and so I recently have been able to release my first album…in September. One of my dreams is to become a full time artist…That’s my dream…I want to be creative, I always want to be creating all the time. That’s one of my hopes is that I will always create no matter what!

Being a creator is an admirable trait. To create is to give hope form. Thanks for being a part of my story, Lucy. I wish you all the best in yours and hope that you will keep on creating beautiful things to share with us all.

Six things we discovered together at Antelope Island:

1. The mosquitos are as abundant as flowers in spring, minus the color. If I had a dollar for every bug that I edited out of the final pictures…

2. Those tiny brine shrimp are kinda cute and pink, and the animal lover in me was sad when so many of them stuck to the dress.

3. The Great Salt Lake stinks a little, or a lot, depending on where you’re standing.

4. That high salt content is intense on the skin!

5. Killer sunsets are a given.

6. Together, we can make meaningful art.

Taking Nature Back

There was a big chapter of my life where I mostly avoided the mountains. I have PTSD and still struggle with triggers. But a few years ago, I decided to pick up a “real” camera. Then, for reasons still unknown to me, I also got a backpack and some camping gear. My theme: Take Nature Back. I view nature as a gift from God and it wasn’t okay with me that someone had taken it away.

Burrowing owl, Antelope Island

My camera was my security item. My sweetheart was my cheerleader. But success was not part of the picture for years. There were so many sleepless nights, several panic attacks, ugly flashbacks, deep bouts of depression, and many moments where I questioned my sanity and ability to continue. I still avoid spending the night in the mountains, but my story continues to inch forward and I’ve met some very kind, understanding people on the way.

I recently thought I’d try an overnighter again, and wondered if having a guide might help. We reached out to Mike (name changed), a local hiking guide and set the date. I even pushed through my panic and signed the waivers. But as the event approached I realized I needed to listen to that part of me that was not ready—to be kind to me. I felt embarrassed, but I briefly explained to Mike why I was cancelling. His reply was unexpectedly compassionate. He said, “…if one day the mountains ever call you again, I hope they feel like yours, not his (my abusers).” I have no words to describe how that phrase impacted me. If you are reading this, “Mike”, thanks again.

Since my decision to Take Back Nature, despite the complications, I have gathered new memories that include bear, elk, coyotes, bison, rabbits, owls, and more. Worry and fear literally disappear when I’m looking through the lens of my camera. I’m thrilled to call myself a professional photographer.

Do you avoid parts of your story too? What helps you the most? I pray for your success as you are brave and creative in your adventures. Our stories aren’t over yet.

I’m a Big Fan of Genes.

Closely tied to my love of photography is that of family history. Fun fact: I used to be a volunteer at the Family Search Library in Salt Lake City where I introduced people to their own family tree and helped them learn how to use the incredible free resources available to them. It was insanely fulfilling to watch people’s eyes well up with tears when they discovered the pieces to the puzzle of their own stories—the people who came before.

Initially it may seem odd to connect creative photography with genealogy. Most people see the search for our roots as historical or bookish. But can it also be artistic? If you’ve ever gone to RootsTech, you’ll remember the moving stories they tell of how people discover where they come from via visual storytelling and stirring musical scores. And I bet you can think of a time when you discovered a painting, song, poem, or story by a grandmother or uncle that fills a gap you didn’t know was there. As Sean Critchfield said, “Art doesn’t just live in the artist. It travels. It connects us while reminding us that we’re not alone…” That’s what I want to create—art that lives on in the lives of others. My photography is my art, and I am excited to tell stories with it. Maybe I can tell your story.

I hope you’ll join me as I officially begin working with the RootsTech media team. This blog will be the written score and my camera will be the instrument by which I play that song for you. Thanks for listening. I sure appreciate it.

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